I am having a hard time mixing my culture with the culture in NY. The discipline (or lack of it) is not the same, the level cleanliness is in two totally different categories, and the money situation is so different from what I grew up with. I have been struggling to put myself in others shoes and see things as they do. I, however, am
thankful for the knowledge of this tool because it helps me see that what I grew up with isn't the only way of looking at things. I can take a step back and see things as a 3rd person and get clarity on the issue at hand. I still struggle when the kids yell at their parents and no discipline is put in place. I still struggle when the parents leave things out for me to put away but I realize that we each have our own molded world where things that seem important to us may not be important to others. It's so hard for me to do this because I am a strong willed person and I feel I must control my elements to stay sane and at peace. I need to let go of my ego and be as a submissive child, ready to learn and able to be taught.